emotionally

focused therapy

what is emotionally focused therapy?

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is a well-established and highly effective form of couples therapy developed by Dr. Sue Johnson. Grounded in attachment theory, EFT helps couples understand and reshape their emotional responses to one another, fostering deeper emotional bonds and more satisfying relationships.

At the core of EFT is the belief that strong emotional connections are essential for healthy relationships. EFT aims to help couples identify and express their underlying emotions and needs, while also fostering greater empathy and understanding between partners.

 Key components of EFT for couples include:

  • EFT views relationships through the lens of attachment, recognizing that our early attachment experiences influence how we relate to others in adulthood.

    By understanding these patterns, couples can work to create more secure and supportive bonds.

  • EFT helps couples recognize and regulate their emotions in order to communicate more effectively and avoid destructive patterns of interaction.

    By learning to express their feelings in a safe, vulnerable and constructive manner, couples can deepen their emotional intimacy.

  • EFT focuses on identifying and interrupting negative interaction cycles that lead to conflict and disconnection.

    Through guided conversations and interventions, couples learn to break free from these patterns and create new, more positive ways of relating to each other.

  • Ultimately, EFT aims to help couples create a secure emotional bond characterized by trust, empathy, and mutual support.

    By fostering a sense of safety and connection, couples can strengthen their relationship and overcome challenges together.

EFT is a structured and collaborative approach, with therapists guiding couples through a series of stages designed to deepen emotional awareness, enhance communication, and promote lasting change.

With its focus on emotions and relationships, EFT offers hope and healing for couples seeking to rebuild intimacy and connection.

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